Why do so many people find a need to be "fit in"?

By Urvashi Mehta

 Why do so many people find a need to be "fit in"?

  1. we are the people who live our life based on other people’s validation
  2. people feel lonely with themselves so they go chasing others.
  3. people are not in love with themselves, yet they run after someone to feel loved.
  4. we are attention seekers. We love attention of most kind.
  5. 95% population is only listening to you so that they can talk, to deliver their opinions. ( actually they are not at all interested in your opinion)
  6. People feel smart if they can express themselves in front of someone, how much they know about something. So they are trying to do it.
  7. In general, they are chasing their self worthiness, they think they will get it with , or by other people.
  8. Who has reached to inner peace, will not seek outside validation.
  9. Blessings 🌺 

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